For literal-thinking kids, soft phrases like 'passed away' or 'went to sleep' can confuse or frighten. Gentle, plain, honest words, and permission to feel however they feel, help more. There is no wrong way to grieve.
One tip from a dad who's been there
Use the real words, gently: 'died,' 'their body stopped working.' Avoid 'sleeping' or 'lost,' which a literal child takes literally. Let big feelings, or no feelings yet, both be okay. Grief comes in waves.
Common questions
How honest should I be about death?
Plain and gentle: 'died' rather than 'went to sleep' or 'went away', because literal minds take soft words literally and wait. Short true sentences, repeated as often as needed. It is okay if the questions repeat.
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